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Trying to find local girls for sex can be a very, very depressing, demeaning and discouraging activity. Really. You demean yourself because you’re thinking, hey, I’m a highly educated person or I have all these experiences and here I am, reduced to the position of a begging little boy trying to get whatever scrap pussy or action I can get from this website that promises local girls for sex.

What the fuck is wrong with this picture? What the fuck is wrong with me? I think I’ll just kill myself. Well, don’t get ahead of yourself. Don’t get too depressed. This happens to all of us, and unfortunately, a lot of guys define themselves based on how often and how effectively they can get pussy.

This is very dangerous territory, let me tell you. Why? Never ever define yourself based on success or failure.

Ultimately, it’s too tempting to define yourself based on your last success or your last failure. You’re worth more than that. You’re worth more than the money you can get. You’re worth more than the degrees you can earn. You’re worth more than the respect other people can give you.

You have intrinsic value. And to constantly reference your value based on external feedback is going to leave you discouraged, diminished, depressed and otherwise exhausted. Why? You can’t control external validation.

Sure, it’s great when people are handing you awards, handing you their money. But what if everything flips and it’s the other way around? What if you put in tons of time and lots of effort only to see shit? What happens then?

So stop looking at external forms validation and start looking at internal forms of reward. This is especially true when it comes to trying to find local girls for sex or hanging out at a local sex site.

How do you define victory in this context? Very simple. Look at where you are in the process and define it that way.

For example, if I just joined a local sex site like https://www.freelocalsex.net/, how do I define success? I define success by successfully putting together a profile and then tracking stats. After I’ve done that, I define success based on how many times I’ve modified my profile to match the statistical responses of women in that local sex site. Do you see how this works?

So define victory the right way, otherwise, you’re just going to make things all that much harder for yourself and ultimate defeat becomes a distinct possibility.

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